Doggy Style, From Nerdy Amateur to Master in 7 Steps

So, you come into the bedroom and she's ready.

It's go time! 

But what position should we take?!

jessica alba doggie style sex position

Doggy style needs no introduction. As one of the most popular entry positions into sex, it makes it one of the top choices for spicing things up a little.

Now I know sex can get crazy but for an amateur like me, mastering any of the popular early positions is super important.

I don’t own a sex swing and my partners draw is oddly empty of sex toys (for now) so for today we’re going to delve into doggy style and run through everything you need to know to get down and dirty, doggy style.

gangnam style doggy style

Doggy style, also spelt doggie style, is a sex position where one person bends over and crouches on all fours on hands and knees and the partner enters from behind. Variations can include doing it against a wall for example where two hands will be holding the wall or even standing if the person behind is holding the arms.

Doggy style quickly rose to popularity because it gives both parties control. For this post, I’m going to pretend it's a guy behind (dominant) and a girl in front (submissive) since that’s what I’m used to but it could be two guys or even a guy and a girl with the girl behind.

The other reason for its insane popularity is how easy it is to do it anywhere. Just find a wall, get your partner to face it, pick up her skirt and go to town.

old school doggie style

The guy usually takes control but there’s not stopping the girl from taking back control which is key. Also, it gives both parties easy access to stimulate the clitoris with either partner’s hand. 

Basically, her whole body is easily accessible which means she can orgasm guaranteed. Use hands, toys, and mouths to massage, rub, tease, or spank her breasts, clit, booty, and back. Just make sure you’re doing the right things in the right areas.

First time? Do a little test and watch out for a positive reaction. Most of the time, even if a girl isn’t 100% enjoying something they’re not going to tell you in the middle of sex, so watching out for a positive reaction is 10x more important than looking for a negative one. 

Because of the positioning, it’s also great for helping the guy hit the G-spot. And as a bonus tip, she can bend forward onto her elbows and squeeze her legs together to shorten the vaginal canal and make penetration even deeper.

It really helps if she has strong pelvic floor muscles, so ladies, start those kegel exercises! You’ll soon be able to grip him tightly to heighten the sensations for both of you.

girls ass on a treadmill

And before we continue, guys usually love doggy style but it ain’t for all woman. NOTHING in sex is. So if you give it a go and you’re both looking at each other disappointed AND you followed all the tips, that’s 100% okay. Your sex life just has to work for you and your partner. No one else.

 

The Basics of Doggy Style

doggy style position

Doggy Style is the most polarising sex position of them all. You’ll either find that people love it or absolutely hate it but it’s so popular because there are so many ways to change it up so that it feels amazing for both you and your partner.

As I said before, doggie style generally means that your partner is on all fours and for straight guys, you enter your partner from behind. My favourite part is the simplicity of it. No swings, no acrobatics, no balancing on one leg with your arms inside out. Just spin her around and you’re away.

beautiful ass

 

How To Maximise Doggy Style

1. Doggy style also is a great position for stimulating her g-spot

The G-spot on your partner is an area on the frontal (belly-button side) vagina wall. For many it feels great when rubbed against. Because of how you’re set up in doggy style, your penis is more likely to rub against the G-spot #win!

Many things come into play to try get this to happen but it’s more than likely to rub against it just naturally.

 

2. It’s also super intimate

Your partners facing away and she’s in your hand and your control. She’s fully on display. There doesn’t need to be any eye contact and it’s raw, and animalistic. And that’s a huge turn on for many guys (and girls) but it’s also a scary position for her if it’s her first time.

 

3. Easy access

Her clitoris is right there for the playing. G-spot stimulation is definitely one thing, but most woman draw their pleasure from their clitoris. This isn’t a button to be abused but something you should be focusing your attention around. Want her to starting peaking? Then go to town on her clitoris while taking her from behind.

 

4. Take shorter thrusts

Most woman who don’t like doggy style says it’s because sometimes it kind of hurts. That’s because you’re going too deep. In the position it allows for deeper penetration but if you’re hitting her cervix, then she’s not having a good time. If this is the case, try shorter thrusts. It’ll mean you’re hitting the G-spot more often and she’ll be much more comfortable. 

 

5. Foreplay is important

Yes doggy is great for a quickie but if you’re adding it into your sex repertoire then you need to keep in mind that it takes around 20-30 minutes of foreplay for her to be fully aroused. It might seem like a long time, but foreplay goes both ways. And after you do this for the first time and she shows her gratitude, you’ll never want to skip this ever again.'

 

6. It's ass time

Boobs or ass is a common question among guys and if you’re an ass guy you’re in look. When a woman starts to shake that ass, especially when you’re behind, it’s one of the most arousing things. Get her to take control, play around and find what feels good her for. Combine this with some clitoral action and she’s well on her way to thanking you for being the man she knows you are.

 

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Fun Fact: if you've tried it, you're actually in the minority. According to a study by the National Survey of Family Growth, only 44 percent of men and 36 percent of women have tried it at least once. Congratulations if you're in that club.

Final perk - we can see her cute butt.

That's it! Have fun, see what she positively reacts to, touch her clitoris and ensure adequate foreplay.

Your homework? See how many places you can do it in. 

You're welcome.